What makes a marriage happy?
If someone could invent a formula or write a prescription for such an outcome, my guess is they’d make millions.
With today’s society struggling with increase rates of divorce and separation, and still others toughing it out in less than blissful unions, I offer my thoughts.
My idea of a happy marriage involves a situation in which both parties respect and care for each other. It certainly helps, too, if they have compatible goals, mutual interests, and complementary temperaments.
Vital, too, is empathy: a oneness with the other. The wonderful feeling that flows when life’s hardships are comforted by caring hugs, soothing words, and meaningful kisses, is immeasurable.
Loyalty, too, is up there as a vital ingredient. For each partner to have the assurance that the other is on their side adds to the sense of stability and strength that a good marriage brings.
Have I forgotten the most important quality? Yes, of course: it’s love!
As Friends of The National Year of Reading 2012, I’m delighted to see events being planned and carried out here in Australia to highlight the advancement of literacy.
Where would we be without the written word, and our ability to read and comprehend it?
Certainly, the easy spread of information depends on it: but more….
Isn’t reading one of life’s greatest pleasures? Do we not feel a profound sense of satisfaction at the end of a well-written, enthralling story? Don’t we feel that we are in contact with the thoughts and ideas of others, yet at the same time being stimulated to form our own opinions, and gain our own insights?
Isn’t there something to be said for reading, where one is actively engaged in the journey of discovery, against sitting back, watching and listening to television or cinema?
Hail The National Year of Reading 2012!
Are you one of my generation: a baby boomer? Looking for inspiration: a sign that time need not wither thee?
I offer my experience of the last twenty four hours.
Last night, I danced for hours to the stirring strains of a great Sixties band, doing my best to keep up with those young enough to be my kids!
After a mere four and a half hours sleep, our alarm bell rang, so at just past first light I’m up and getting breakfast for Ron and my pets.
Eight a.m. sees me queuing to register for four swimming events. By eleven-thirty it’s all over, and I’ve recorded one of my fastest times ever in the one kilometre race, and a rather slick time for the hundred.
Am I proud of myself? Wouldn’t you be?
Has it been a long road for me? A fellow Australian writer asked me today.
How can I answer that?
Truth is, it’s only lately that I’m starting to get somewhere.
Consistent newspaper publication of my ‘letters to the editor’ spurred me on to writing books. Praise from my readers, mostly locals, and most of all, the enthusiasm and support of my husband Ronald Sharp, the well-respected creator of the Grand Organ in the Sydney Opera House, kept me motivated.
A number of libraries bought my books, and patrons seem keen to borrow them.
Yes, the road is long, especially when you take into account the years of formal study, the decades of observation, and the effort of finding the courage to put my skill on the line!
It’s with immense pleasure that I report that my second book, ‘A Taste of Life and Love in Australia’, has at last been given a ranking on the Amazon best sellers list.
Always one of my particular favourites, ‘A Taste..’ has been wistfully awaiting this recognition. Sure, at last look it’s number 332 thousand odd, but a start’s a start! I guess even ‘Gone with the Wind’ never began at the top, either!
Calling all fans of Ronald Sharp, the creator of the Sydney Opera House’s Grand Organ!
Are you aware that he alone edited my five published volumes, in his own distinctive way?
Speaking just a few days ago, he likened it to pauses in music, aiding in our understanding of what is happening.
Have I aroused your interest? Then, why not check out a book or two. Simply Google and type in my full name. Once you’ve found an Amazon.com site, just click to look inside. Who knows, you might even be tempted to buy!